August is a month of paradoxes.
Summer, which I love, is ending. In Wisconsin, we typically cram six months (or more) of activities into the three reliably warm months we enjoy. Thus, season’s end is a
very big deal.
As someone who works from home, I enjoy having my three children around in summer. I’ll miss their healthy distraction when they return to school.
Late August also means, of course, that football season is right around the corner. As mentioned, many times, my family is football-obsessed. We can’t wait to gear up for the gridiron!
This year has an added dimension. My oldest son, Kennedy, is in his first year of full-on tackle football. He loved playing flag football for the past three years. A few weeks into this new level, his enthusiasm is greater than ever.
Between practices, scrimmages and (soon to be) games, his football team is a Monday-to- Saturday obligation. It’s a big commitment for a 10-year-old.
It’s a big one for
me, too. I drive him to and from practice. The trip is roughly 20 minutes each way. I always stay and watch, too.
Once again, this is time I
really don’t have to spare. Once again, it doesn’t matter. The experience is worth any amount of schedule-shuffling I must do.
Kennedy plays wide receiver and defensive back. His skills are developing fast. During practice, when he makes a play, he looks up to me in the stands ... and I respond with a thumbs-up.
During water breaks, Kennedy comes over to consult on his performance. I’m no Vince Lombardi, to be sure. So, I appreciate that he values my opinion.
Even our drive time is quality time. We’ll stop at
Kwik Trip, grab a bite to eat, and talk over the events just transpired. The lessons Kennedy’s learning – sportsmanship, teamwork, leadership – will not be left on the football field.
While I’ve adjusted my working hours (to later), I wouldn’t trade this time with my son for anything. The fact that he’s already 10 years old floors me.
He’ll be off to college before I know it. This opportunity will only be here once. I don’t want to look back and think, “I wish I’d been more involved with Kennedy when he was doing (fill in the blank) …”
Are you taking advantage of every opportunity to spend time with those you love most? You should. Time accelerates, the older you (and your kids) get. Live in the present now, so you won’t have regrets later.
Not every outing or event will be a touchdown. Being together, though, cements your status as a team.
If you aren’t already in the game, get in soon … while there’s still time left on the clock.
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